I was raised in a world full of rules, like all of us, though as I grew up in a military family in and around military bases - so maybe a bit more so for me. As a parent myself, rules are at play - "no son you can't bang our wooden table with an old hammer". Even the business world is full of rules, don't agree? Speak to your bank's payments or compliance department or your lawyer or accountant and get back to me. We soak up all sorts of rules like sponges, implicitly. Like my toddler son when he found my old hammer, "no the rule is I can't bang the table with the hammer - when you are in the room" - while he has reverse engineered the rule and context perfectly - Though I feel he didn't pick up on the full spirit of the rule. The late author David Graeber had a talent for analysing rules in societies old and new. He used "opposites" as a way to elucidate the rules and assumptions at play in fiction and in society. A good example he us...
My thoughts on developing & testing.